Sunday, November 19, 2006
the Questioner
Thanks for taking the test !
you chose CY - your Enneagram type is
SIX.
"I am affectionate and skeptical"Questioners are responsible, trustworthy, and value loyalty to family, friends, groups, and causes. Their personalities range broadly from reserved and timid to outspoken and confrontative. How to Get Along with Me// Be direct and clear.
// Listen to me carefully.
// Don't judge me for my anxiety.
// Work things through with me.
// Reassure me that everything is OK between us.
// Laugh and make jokes with me.
// Gently push me toward new experiences.
// Try not to overreact to my overreacting.
What I Like About Being a Six// Being committed and faithful to family and friends
// Being responsible and hardworking
// being compassionate toward others
// Having intellect and wit
// Being a nonconformist
// Confronting danger bravely
// Being direct and assertive
What's Hard About Being a Six// The constant push and pull involved in trying to make up my mind
// Procrastinating because of fear of failure; having little confidence in myself
// Fearing being abandoned or taken advantage of
// Exhausting myself by worrying and scanning for danger
// Wishing I had a rule book at work so I could do everything right
// Being too critical of myself when I haven't lived up to my expectations
Sixes as Children Often// Are friendly, likable, and dependable, and/or sarcastic, bossy, and stubborn
// Are anxious and hypervigilant; anticipate danger
// Form a team of "us against them" with a best friend or parent
// Look to groups or authorities to protect them and/or question authority and rebel
// Are neglected or abused, come from unpredictable or alcoholic families, andor take on the fearfulness of an overly anxious parent
Sixes as Parents// Are often loving, nurturing, and have a strong sense of duty
// Are sometimes reluctant to give their children independence
// Worry more than most that their children will get hurt
// Sometimes have trouble saying no and setting boundaries
The Window Shopper
Random Gentle Love Dreamer (RGLDf)Loving, hopeful, open. Likely to carry on an romance from afar. You are The Window Shopper.
You take love as opportunities come, which can lead to a high-anxiety, but high-flying romantic life. You're a genuinely sweet person, not saccharine at all, so it's likely that the relationships you have had and will have will be happy ones. You've had a fair amount of love experience for your age, and there'll be much more to come.
Part of why we know this is that, of all female types, you are the most prone to sudden, ferocious crushes. Your results indicate that you're especially capable of obsessing over a guy you just met. Obviously, passion like this makes for an intense existence. It can also make for soul-destroying letdowns.
Your ideal match is someone who'll love you back with equal fire, and someone you've grown to love slowly. A self-involved or pessimistic man is especially bad. Though you're drawn to them, avoid artists at all costs.
BEWARE: The Hornivore
CONSIDER: The Gentleman, The Loverboy, The Boy Next Door
Your exact opposite:
The Stiletto
Deliberate Brutal Sex Master
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My Uncharted Territory out
@ |3:59 PM|
Friday, November 10, 2006
toleranceMy inability to put forth my feelings are best expressed through silence. Silence means a lot of things to me; serious, contemplation, calm, mutual, relax, resignation, joy and rebellion. To not talk, it is the best choice for many situations. However, it is also to me, the worst choice if a miscommunication happens, and I am always too tired to clarify or to explain anything. I am often the cause of an argument when I do not talk. I must learn...
Every relationship starts when both parties had this mutual feeling of liking and desire to learn more about the other half's life, their thoughts, their feelings, that is their everything. This budding phase is sweetest compared to all stages of relationship because, there's someone interested in you, your everything. Everyone loves attention. Everyone yearns to be known. Everyone desires to be appreciated. Everyone wants to be loved, be happy and be protected. I will want to say that, this sweet phase of the relationship can never last long if tolerance and acceptance doesn't come hand in hand to make it work out.
Love is blind, and it always is. Like others said, beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. When one first started a relationship, their love is like a raging fire devouring all the flaws and goods. They thought its only gradual that these flaws will soon be gone, as the other party will CHANGE FOR YOU. Oppz. Sorry. It's not always like this. Consider the background of each party, consider their characters, their brought-up, values and beliefs. You may find it hard to juggle, as it's like a time bomb ticked to the last second. BOMB! An argument starts. What is that bomb sheid you can use to protect yourself from getting hurt is TOLERANCE. I regretted that I ain't using this shield to protect myself, and very often got myself torn apart.
I failed as a girlfriend i must say. I'm quick-tempered, impatient and expects a lot out of my boyfriend. He's truly a devoted man, and unless it's something he really couldn't work out, he will have to let go on my side and hope i can understand his plight. And very often, I don't. He's got to juggle his studies, family and me. Studies mean a LOT to him. It's his dreams, his future, and his life. Just why must I be so mean and not understand this important thing he held so tight? He must be a great man to be able to juggle both me and his studies up at the same level, or rather, i'm higher.
I must learn.
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My Uncharted Territory out
@ |12:39 PM|
Wednesday, November 08, 2006
I've got Laryngitis (leh-reen-jai-tis).
It's a disease that cause temporary loss of voice/speech etc, it's an inflammation in the vocal cord (can be serious/mild) and wht i've got is a mild one. So i need 2-3 weeks to get my proper voice back and steady. haha. shit man. there goes my job. i don't think i can stay there longer liaos, even if i wish to.
hmmm... it happened overnight. I myself, was shocked by it too. if it's more serious, i might not be able to sing liaos. hmmm.. one of my customer got this sickness. and his is permanent. so i hope, i better take care of myself for these few days and not let it worsen till it got permanent. :) jia you to myself...
anyways, i've got a week of MC. it's extendable. hahahaa... so shuang. stay at home get paid also. tmd. i hate myself for being so vulnerable to sickness these days. only a week ago, i'd got food poisoning, 2 days MC. now 2 weeks.
what ever... what ever that's happened to me, i will take it in my stride. i'm not dying, i'm still young and got lotsa time. :) jia you for myself...
JIA YOU LAURA! JIA YOU!
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My Uncharted Territory out
@ |10:10 PM|
Sunday, November 05, 2006
Well, as jenny suggested on her blog, this is a godly website for your CURRENT (i would say) complete "personality cum situation" profile.
http://www.paulgoldinresearch.com/cg/
Ok, what i had pasted below is what i'm REALLY facing now. look at those bolds.
You are longing for some love and affection at this time - not that you have been deprived of tender loving care - but there are times when everyone needs to try something new or to go 'somewhere' else to perhaps experience that little extra 'understanding'. (well, i'd say it's all because of my darling's examination.)
Of late, everything seems to be going so slowly - far slower than you anticipated - and this is causing you much anxiety and frustration. It would appear that there is little you can do about the series of events that now seem to be taking place. In spite of the fact that you feel like 'giving up' - don't. Take a deep breath and start over again and you will find that eventually the expression 'All's well that ends well' will have an extra special meaning for you.
(And then again, this shoots right into the bull's eye. I'm STRUGGLING HARD! so... damn it. fucking accurate.)
All the problems that you have been experiencing of late seem to have become a part of your life and there is little that can be done to change the situation. Your emotions run high - but even though you feel as if at times you are about to burst this situation will pass. Try to release your pent-up emotions by participating in some extra physical activities like running, swimming, whatever. There must be some favourite pastime, not necessarily strenuous, that can help you to relax. (Especially now when i'm solely running on a bloody project and i duno where to go, n how to relax.)
You are being unduly influenced by the situation that is all around you. You do not like the feeling of loneliness and whatever it is that seems to separate you from others. You know that life can be wonderful and you are anxious to experience life in all its aspects, to live it to the full. You therefore resent any restriction or limitations that are being imposed on you and you insist on going it alone. (This webbie is freakish. I hate my manager who keep restricting me and NAGGGGGGG. HELL!)
You don't like conflict and you endeavour to avoid criticism. You want to do your own thing and to be able to decide what is right for you. You have considerable personable charm - and this is used with considerable effect on those that keep your company. (hurhur, this is why i keep avoiding my manager a lot of time, and do my work in a "considerably" consistent manner. @ least, some figure is in.)
but anyways, i'm seriously thinking of quitting. hmm. but each time i failed la. THE DEADLINE FOR MY PROJECT IS 24TH NOVEMBER 2006!! and my target of 80k within 15 days is impossible. so since it's alr
fixed, let 24th come faster!
*and oh, i miss ya darling* =)
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My Uncharted Territory out
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