Sunday, November 19, 2006

the Questioner

Thanks for taking the test !


you chose CY - your Enneagram type is

SIX.

"I am affectionate and skeptical"


Questioners are responsible, trustworthy, and value loyalty to family, friends, groups, and causes. Their personalities range broadly from reserved and timid to outspoken and confrontative.



How to Get Along with Me

// Be direct and clear.
// Listen to me carefully.
// Don't judge me for my anxiety.
// Work things through with me.
// Reassure me that everything is OK between us.
// Laugh and make jokes with me.
// Gently push me toward new experiences.
// Try not to overreact to my overreacting.


What I Like About Being a Six

// Being committed and faithful to family and friends
// Being responsible and hardworking
// being compassionate toward others
// Having intellect and wit
// Being a nonconformist
// Confronting danger bravely
// Being direct and assertive


What's Hard About Being a Six

// The constant push and pull involved in trying to make up my mind
// Procrastinating because of fear of failure; having little confidence in myself
// Fearing being abandoned or taken advantage of
// Exhausting myself by worrying and scanning for danger
// Wishing I had a rule book at work so I could do everything right
// Being too critical of myself when I haven't lived up to my expectations


Sixes as Children Often

// Are friendly, likable, and dependable, and/or sarcastic, bossy, and stubborn
// Are anxious and hypervigilant; anticipate danger
// Form a team of "us against them" with a best friend or parent
// Look to groups or authorities to protect them and/or question authority and rebel
// Are neglected or abused, come from unpredictable or alcoholic families, andor take on the fearfulness of an overly anxious parent


Sixes as Parents

// Are often loving, nurturing, and have a strong sense of duty
// Are sometimes reluctant to give their children independence
// Worry more than most that their children will get hurt
// Sometimes have trouble saying no and setting boundaries





The Window Shopper
Random Gentle Love Dreamer (RGLDf)

Loving, hopeful, open. Likely to carry on an romance from afar. You are The Window Shopper.

You take love as opportunities come, which can lead to a high-anxiety, but high-flying romantic life. You're a genuinely sweet person, not saccharine at all, so it's likely that the relationships you have had and will have will be happy ones. You've had a fair amount of love experience for your age, and there'll be much more to come.

Part of why we know this is that, of all female types, you are the most prone to sudden, ferocious crushes. Your results indicate that you're especially capable of obsessing over a guy you just met. Obviously, passion like this makes for an intense existence. It can also make for soul-destroying letdowns.

Your ideal match is someone who'll love you back with equal fire, and someone you've grown to love slowly. A self-involved or pessimistic man is especially bad. Though you're drawn to them, avoid artists at all costs.


BEWARE: The Hornivore

CONSIDER: The Gentleman, The Loverboy, The Boy Next Door


Your exact opposite:
The Stiletto

Deliberate Brutal Sex Master

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My Uncharted Territory out
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